💸 Unwind & Unlearn: Your Relationship with Money

Today I want to talk about a really important piece of the Unwind & Unlearn phase—your relationship with money.

Money is tricky. Especially if you're a woman. Especially if you're a healer.
When you're both? You’ve likely inherited some deeply ingrained beliefs that have nothing to do with you—and everything to do with other people’s programming (OPP).

We’re told things like:
– “Money doesn’t grow on trees.”
– “You should just be grateful.”
– “Rich people are bad.”
– “Wanting more is selfish.”

These beliefs don’t just live in our thoughts—they live in our nervous systems.
They create resistance, guilt, or shame anytime we try to step into greater abundance. And they can quietly hold us back from the impact we’re here to make.

✨ Let’s go deeper

This week, I’m inviting you to get curious about your earliest money experiences.

Ask yourself:
💭 What’s your first memory of money?
💭 What was said? What did it feel like?

For me, I remember watching my parents sitting at the kitchen table, sorting through bills and paperwork with stressed-out energy. That moment imprinted something in me about what money was—and it took years to unwind.

When we bring awareness to those moments, we start to see the rules we absorbed. Rules like “Don’t talk about money,” “Don’t be too successful,” or “People won’t like you if you’re wealthy.”
And when we start to break those rules (even mentally), our nervous systems respond with discomfort—like anxiety, guilt, or fear. That’s totally normal, and it’s also something we can work through.

🛠️ Try this practice:

1. Write down what you currently earn—or what your household budget is.

2. Now write down the amount you wish you were making.

3. Now double it. Yep, double it.

4. Imagine holding up that number on a sign… on a stage… in front of your friends, family, colleagues—even strangers.

What comes up?
😳 Embarrassment?
😅 Fear?
😔 Guilt?
That’s your nervous system responding to a rule you’ve been told not to break.
And that’s where the real work begins.

🌱 Final thought:

Money is how we exchange energy in our culture.
It’s how you support your family, give generously, fund your dreams, and bring your healing work to life.

Having more money doesn’t make you less of a healer—it gives you more power to help.

If this stirred something in you and you’re ready to dig deeper into your money blocks, know that you have tools: tapping, Ho’oponopono, breathwork, energetic cord clearing—and support.

You don’t have to stay stuck in old beliefs.
You get to rewrite your money story.

And I’m here with you every step of the way.